Sunday, July 31

Pretty In Pink: wish list

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*I use cloth diapers with my babies.  I have several from Truman, but would LOVE some girly ones. 

My favorite diapers are:

 

Under $20

 

Under $50

 

$50-100

Everyday LIFE Homeschooling Highlights: week 3

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Saturday, July 30

Everyday LIFE Homeschooling Highlights week 2

Our 2nd week of school was CrAzY!  Not only was Truman a handful, but it was also the week of VBS & you guessed it – I not only taught at home all week, but I also taught the 3-6 year olds at VBS.  Yes, I’m loony!  In fact week 2 almost pushed me over the edge.  By Wednesday we were sleeping in & Thursday I was revamped.  We all had a great time (at home & church), but we were exhausted.  Juggling school, home, & church all week was a bit much for this prego mama.  I powered through & have wonderful memories.  *I did stay in bed the entire day the following Saturday :) 

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Friday, July 29

the UGLINESS of homeschooling

I recently read this comment on a blog,

“One of the hardest parts of homeschooling is seeing just how ugly I can be. The lack of patience, the irritation, the frustration, the lack of organization. I mean, didn't I conquer ANY of these sins yet?”

Wow.  Isn’t that the truth!  From the outside I may appear to be the sweet little homeschool mama that picks the perfect curriculum & has such fun activities planned for her tot’s & has an awesome schoolbarn. 

Reality – I can be really ugly sometimes.  More often than I’d ever like to admit.  I probably act worse than the kids sometimes. 

My patience is so thin.  I “loose it”. Daily if we are being totally honest.  Tucker & Trevor fight constantly & by the end of the day I find myself yelling at them (way louder than they were yelling at each other).  Truman get’s into EVERYTHING & is a typical 2 year old & my patience can be very limited after picking up mess after disastrous mess.

I get irritated with the little things that really don’t matter.  I have 4 boys & during read alouds it irritates me beyond belief when I look up & they are standing on their heads or hitting each other or wondering off into the land of cows, raccoons, or fishing.  I expect way more from my kids than I myself can meet.  I get super frustrated when I have to read the same paragraph at least 4 times because no one is listening.  I am extremely intimidated with teaching reading & writing. 

At times I feel like a bad mommy.  A horrible homeschool mommy. And a terrible teacher. 

I allow the thoughts of ruining my kids, not meeting standards, falling behind, others judgment, & even my own judgment to overwhelm me & doubt my choices.

But then there is GRACE.  Their grace.  My own grace.  & most importantly HIS grace.  Whew.  Thank you God for knowing all the things I am going to fail at.  Thank you for that wedge of protection you put over my children at times.  Thank you for allowing them to see the good in me despite my many faults. 

It is during the ugly times – we all experience (some more than others) that we must stop & remember Philippians 4:

“Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things.”

When I find myself ashamed or disappointed with my reactions to LIFE – because, really – homeschooling or not I would still lack patience, be irritable, get frustrated, & “loose it” as a mom.  I ask God OUTLOUD (where my kids can hear) for forgiveness & whatever I am lacking at that moment.  At the end of the day I try to focus on all the good moments we had throughout the day.  Each night our family goes around the table, taking turns sharing the best part of the day.  It never fails to surprise me, on the days I feel like I failed most, when one of my children’s best parts included me. 

Homeschooling can be so discouraging at times.  Our children can be true challenges when we least expect it or are totally ill-prepared to deal with it.  Our spouses can be less understanding than we truly need.  Our friends can appear totally together when we feel like we are totally falling apart.  Blogs can be full of great memories, look what we did’s, & cool schoolrooms :)  But we are all just doing the best we can.  And if homeschooling is what you feel the Lord has lead you to, then call on God’s grace during the seasons you feel consumed with the ugliness.  For some of us it is just mere moments, others is seems like days or weeks, & to be perfectly honest there will probably be season or years you feel really ugly. 

One day I had asked the boys to clean their room at least a dozen times.  Somehow, when daddy’s gives the same instruction it gets done immediately.  For me, I was not getting the same obedient respect.  I became very upset – a screaming lunatic probably.  And handled it NOT by the book.  At first I began to feel guilty for throwing toys away.  Then a sense of understanding came over me as I felt the Lord calming me,

“Tiffany, I knew the kind of mother you were going to be before I gave these boys to you.  I picked you despite your faults to be their mother.  I knew you would be what they needed.”

I’m not saying God told me it was okay to yell at my kids, but am saying He told me it was just as okay for me to not be the perfect mother, as it was okay to accept that I wouldn’t have perfect kids.  We all make mistakes & have issues God is working on.  Hang in there sista!  You are rising to the call of a mighty King & no matter how ugly it might get - He is right there with ya all the way!  And after you peel back the layer of ugliness – there the beauty lies – An imperfect mother, showing her kids the desperate need for a forgiving & understanding Father. 

Wednesday, July 27

. . . OJECT . . .

Any guesses what this said before I erased the first half?

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Lately my mustangs have been acting more like wild stallions, raring to kill each other!

They argue, fight, & tattle on each other constantly!  It drives me CRAZY!!!

So, in a desperate attempt at gaining some peace last week, I wrote the words “CANDY PROJECT” on the board.

At the end of the week we were planning on doing a science project (more on that soon!) & the boys were all really looking forward to the edible activity.  I decided to use their eagerness (to learn of course – the candy really had nothing to do with it.  -- yeah!  right!!!) to my utmost advantage.  Each time the boys fought or I heard any arguing or tattling I just erased a letter.  If at the end of the week the letters were gone they were not going to be able to participate in the candy project.  Yes, I know 12 chances in 4 days sounds like A LOT, but trust me, they needed it!  And by the second day they were a little nervous & I was seeing a bit of a change. 

Luckily, they made it!  AND I was able to have a slightly more peaceful week.

Monday, July 25

gator attack

We had a wild gator loose in our school{barn} …

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He was caught eating a Legoman . . .

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After we rescued the Legoman, we discovered a few more victims . . .

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Friday, July 22

HOME Management: Cleaning

 

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I recently posted My Cleaning Schedule, so this post might be a little redundant, but here is what is behind the cleaning section of my Home Management binder.  And a little more detail . . .

 

My weekly schedule for household tasks is as follows:

Monday – Cleaning Day:  Sometimes I get a jumpstart on this on Sunday evening, but for the most part Monday is my weekend recovery day.  The boys & I go through the house room-by-room or split up & race each other with a treat at the end of each clean room.  I usually play music & it is a fun time for us – yes, cleaning is fun. 

Tuesday – Kitchen Day:  This is the day I look at the weeks menu & do all the food prep I possibly can for the remainder of the week.  I also try to give the kitchen a little tlc (especially if it is not my focus zone for the week).  I can’t tell you how this has bailed me out from crazy busy weeks or from cheating & popping a pizza in or opening a can of Spaghetti O’s.

Wednesday – Laundry Day:  “I will not leave you nor forsake you,” this is what I say each time I greet my washer.  As soon as I hit the floor on Wednesday’s I start a load of laundry & set a timer so I am totally on top of it.  The kids help me somewhat on laundry day.  They do quite a bit of outside chores & have a good amount of self-responsibility, I don’t have them help with the laundry other than folding towels or easy loads & putting away their own clothes.  However, I recently bought this bad-boy & they are all begging to fold their own shirts!!  I love Kim’s idea of “4x4” or “2x2” – racing the clock – 2 loads by 2pm.  Typically, I try to do a load a day (1x1) so that laundry day isn’t absolutely cRaZy, but I have managed to school, wash, fold, & put away up to 7 full capacity loads!  This included hanging sheets & towels!!  (*It helps to have an easy meal or crockpot meal prepared.  Wednesdays are usually our pizza night)  It is a lot of work, but the accomplishment at the end of the day is amazing.  Come to think of it, the first 3 days of my week are a lot of work, but then it is all down hill from there . . .

Thursday – Office Day:  My office day is pretty simple.  I pay bills, do online shopping, blog, catch up & clean out my e-mail inbox, work on lesson plans & meal plans.  My Type A heart yearns for Thursdays!!

Friday – Town Day:  Friday’s are typically our fun day or errand day.  Because we live so far from town most often no matter what is on the schedule grocery shopping is done this day.  I also try to save doc appointments for Fridays.  During the fall & spring it is also our co-op day.

Saturdays – Rest:  I was raised 7th Day Adventist & although I don’t follow their teachings strictly or attend a SDA church, I still prefer to make Saturday’s our family day of rest & enjoying the country life.  Living on a farm there is always work that needs to be done, so it is not always a true day of rest. 

Sundays – Project Day:  After church on Sundays we usually hang out or work on household projects as a family.

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On the other side is a schedule I printed from donnayoung.org

My focus areas are:

  • Week 1:  Kitchen
  • Week 2:  Living Room
  • Week 3:  Master Bedroom & Office
  • Week 4:  Other Bedrooms & Bathroom
  • Week 5:  Schoolroom

My binder contains these cleaning schedules/checklists & a list for each room (from iHeartOrganizing) .  I plan to print the room lists out for the kids & have a list available in each room (soon). 

Next up – My Meal Planning & Grocery Shopping

Thursday, July 21

U.S. Postcard Swap

**UPDATE**

Thank you sooo much for those of you that volunteered to send us post cards.  The boys will be so excited to receive them.  If you are still willing to do so please e-mail me at:  rockinc@ntin.net.  Thank you!!!


This year (next week!!how is that for last minute?), we will be studying American History using Winter Promise’s All American 1 curriculum.  In addition to history, the curriculum also has a geography study for older children (my mustangs will join in on part of this).  Each week a state is focused on.  And it just so happens that as I am neck deep in planning I came across the Great American Postcard Swap idea.  How cool would it be for my kids to receive a postcard from the state we are learning about? 

I don’t think I’m “popular” enough to host a full-force postcard swap & I know not all my readers are studying states or using WP this year, but would you be interested in exchanging postcards or at least sending us a state themed postcards and include 1 or 2 state facts in the message area?

Here are the states we will cover this year & a {very} tentative schedule:

*If you don’t mind mailing us a postcard it does not have to arrive the exact week we are studying – these are merely dates I’d like to receive them by.

date

state

7/11

Maine

7/18

Massachusetts

7/25

New Hampshire

8/1

Vermont

8/8

Connecticut

8/15

Rhode Island

8/22

New York

8/29

New Jersey

9/5

Pennsylvania

9/12

West Virginia

10/23

Maryland

10/30

Delaware

11/7

North Carolina

11/14

Virginia

11/21

Kentucky

11/28

Tennessee

12/5

South Carolina

1/2

Georgia

1/9

Alabama

1/16

Mississippi

1/23

Florida

1/30

Arkansas

2/6

Louisiana

2/13

Ohio

2/20

Michigan

2/27

Indiana

3/5

Illinois

3/12

Wisconsin

3/26

Minnesota

4/2

Iowa

4/9

Missouri

4/16

North Dakota

4/23

South Dakota

4/30

Nebraska

5/7

Kansas

THANK YOU!!

Wednesday, July 20

5th Grade Reading List

Here is a list of books for Tyler to choose from this year for his reading time (since reading is NOT his strongest subject, some of these are below level to encourage him):

 

Humor

  • The Saturdays (5.4)
  • Owls in the Family (4.9)
  • Mrs. Piggle Wiggle (3-5)

 

Folk Tale

  • In Grandma’s Attic (3.9)
  • The Whipping Boy (3.9)

 

Non-Fiction

  • One Small Square

 

Realistic Fiction

  • All of a Kind Family
  • Shiloh (9 yr +)

 

Biography

  • “Who was …” series

 

Adventure

  • Riding Freedom (4.5)
  • A Lion To Guard Us (2.9)
  • Stuart Little (5.3)
  • Call it Courage (4-6)

 

Historical Fiction

  • Signs of the Beavers (4.9)
  • The Matchlock Gun (5.1)
  • Sara Witcher’s Story (5.3)
  • Squanto, Friend of the Pilgrims (3.0)
  • And Then What Happened, Paul Revere?
  • Shh! We’re writing the constitution
  • Pocahontas & the Strangers (4.5)
  • What’s the Big Idea Ben Franklin
  • Farmer Boy (5.2)
  • Almost Home (5.8)
  • Guns For General Washington (6.1)
  • Little House in the Big Woods (5.3)

 

Fantasy

  • Charlotte’s Web (4.4)

 

Mystery

  • Encyclopedia Brown (4.1)
  • Footprints in the Barn (4.2)

Tuesday, July 19

Preparing my son

I just finished reading the first part of Preparing Your Son for Every Man's Battle as part of the parent reading in our Against the Tide Curriculum.  I know I have already shared how excited I am about this curriculum & have mentioned how much I am enjoying this time with my boys, but I just have to tell you that it is such a God thing!  I stumbled on this by accident at the book fair, never having even heard of it, much less, intending on purchasing it.  And little did I know that my oldest really needed it.  I respect his privacy & some matters are NOT for mom’s blog, but because so many of us mama’s (especially to boys)  can be clueless to the signs of pre-puberty/puberty & can’t relate to the changes that occur as our children enter the “tween” year,  I want to share my thoughts on this topic without sharing too many personal details.

When I was sorting through these books at the book fair I overheard another mother arguing with the vendor (after previewing one of the books) about how if the topics in the books weren’t issues for her son why in the world would she need to address them with him.  Her argument bothered me, but I couldn’t exactly pinpoint why.  Nor was it really any of my ease-dropping business!

Preparing Your Son for Every Man's Battle is written to parents of 11+ year olds.  The first part of the book is for parents (mainly addressed to fathers, but as a mom to many boys I found it very informative & relieving to know some of the changes & questions my son is asking is typical & to prepare ME for future questions he may have).  The second portion of the book is for a parent to do with their son. 

Here are some pink highlights that you’d find in my copy:

“The male brain is more oriented to facts & logic than to emotions & intuitions.” pg 22

Isn’t that the truth!  This is part of my concern with my husband addressing our tween son – he only hits the facts & logic.  I want him to dive into the emotions & my intuitions. 

“Dad has to be close enough to his son to be able to call the ‘heart of the man’ out of the boy.”  pg 31

This brings tears to my eyes, but is so true & yet so hard to watch sometimes.  As my oldest boy exits boyhood & enters the next step into becoming a man, my heart breaks.  I blinked & my baby was a boy, I blinked again & he is a young man.  Sometimes it is so hard for me as the mama to watch as my husband calls ‘the heart of the man’ out in them.  Yet, I am so thankful they have a father that is close enough & cares enough to do so.  Necessary.  Not always easy.

“We’re often giving our kids the good things but not the best things – a biblical vision for manhood, a biblical vision of treating women with honor, & a challenging vision to give their lives a purpose that is something greater than themselves.”  pg 33

It is so easy to get caught up in things.  Even homeschooling things.  I often loose sight of the best things & need to refocus on what is really “the best” for them.  It is so important to me that they learn to live beyond themselves.

“…serial dating could bring a lot of pain as you open your emotions freely to people who are not the least bit committed to you in the long run.”  pg 68

“When you let your emotions out freely in situations where there is no real commitment, you can be crushed.”  pg 69

As my son watches his friends “going out with” girls, I had to address this with him as well.  This is so simple & honestly put.

“A Christian teen should look different from the average non-Christian teens.  Too often our adolescent Christians are indistinguishable from their non-Christian peers, watching the same movies, listening to the same music, catching the same shows on television – & even having the same attitudes about premarital sex.”  pg 81

“God doesn’t use terms like common & uncommon, & He doesn’t measure character in relation to the world.”  pg 81

These last 2 quotes are so so true.  Sometimes as parents we worry about our children fitting in, or others liking them (even homeschoolers), but I can’t tell you how proud I am to have a son that other’s compliment for being “different.”  He isn’t perfect, but his light definitely shines!  I have to warn you though, having a child that is “different” is no easy task – for them or you.  The more your child works for God’s glory the more apt they are to be spiritually attacked. 

My son really is a good boy.  He amazes me every day & his love for the Lord is astounding.  As he leaves boyhood & becomes more of a young man I find myself a little lost at times.  What is normal?  What is okay?  I was totally caught off guard by the sneaky changes of time –> puberty.  He is not so much “interested” in girls as he is noticing them now.  This can be an uncomfortable change for some young men & this book helped prepare me for future questions he may have, or questions he may already have but isn’t brave enough to ask.  The topics in this book vary & regardless, you are still the parent & get to choose when & how or even if you will address them with your son, but I think it is very important to acknowledge that there is a possibility of the the unspoken.  Your son may be going through changes & might not know how to discuss them with you.  He may be curious about things (even girls & sex), but I know for certain if you don’t talk to him about it or teach him to stand for something he will fall for anything.  The talks don’t have to be all at once, but I am learning the importance of keeping the doors of communication open & being prepared to prepare him.  I found this book an excellent resource for that. 

Thursday, July 14

Family Message Center

I’m not sure what struck the creative streak in me to turn our very ugly non-functional hallway into a family message center, but once the idea surfaced I did what I do – Searched high & low, spending a couple hours on the internet googling & scrolling pictures.  Here is my inspiration & my version:

Wall one:

my inspiration:

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I plan on putting a “BLESSED” sign or scripture at the very top of this.  The top row is a dry-erase board from Target & next to it is a brown corkboard (also from Target) with a calendar of “praying for your children.”  (*other important things will be added to the corkboard)

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The bottom is a weekly “post-it” calendar (from Target) I put in a picture frame & scrapped the side.  I love using picture frames as dry-erase boards.  Underneath this is a magnet strip from IKEA with magnet message clips from Target.

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*I know the black line (ribbon) isn’t straight in the pix – I’m too lazy to take it out of the frame & fix it right now :)

Wall two:

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This side of the wall leads to the boys room & still needs the doorway re-trimmed from us removing the door.  My shelf & coat/hat rack is from IKEA ($10!!)  I really wanted 2 side-by-side, but only 1 would fit.  For now it is holding hats, but I intend on using the book bags too.  I am ordering the LLBEAN bags (color coding & embroidering each kids name on them).  My chalkboard was one of the extra’s we didn’t use in our schoolbarn.  Originally it was green with a wooden trip.  I repainted it & blinged it up with some colorful chalk.  *I love PAINT chalk!!

Wall three:

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This is actually from a friend of mines house.  I made the “I heart you because:” frame, but am still on a hunt for bins that will work for us.  Her bins are custom made (by another homeschool dad – who I need to bake some cookies or something for as bribery).  I’ve looked for bins like the one in the first picture above (LOVE those green bins from Staples), but they are no longer available & honestly, I have 5 kids – they aren’t space-effective.  Right now our small wall just has the picture frame.  I just scrapbooked the message (leaving a blank line at the top & bottom), & framed it – using a dry-erase marker to leave sweet messages to each other.  Super easy!

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And guess what – this entire project was very inexpensive.  The paint was FREE (left overs from a very sweet friend)!  Most of the items I already had & what I did have to buy (2 picture frames, coatrack, & post-it calendar) were very inexpensive or I had a coupon for it!  There are still a few finishing touches to add, but so far I’m estimating I spent less than $50 on the entire project!  (minus the lovely LLBEAN bags I’m eyeing ;)

Wednesday, July 13

2011-2012: week 1

I am working on an Everyday LIFE “Homeschooling Highlights” from our first week, but this week is VBS at our church & I’m teaching the PK/K class.  This week is CRAZY busy!  Yes, we are still schooling in the middle & I’m happy to say we are finishing in a timely manner & getting it all done before VBS. 

For now here are some video’s of the boys reviewing what they’ve learned. 

*My boys have shirts & there is A/C in our schoolroom,

but they are country boys & rarely have shirts on at home. 

If this offends you – I apologize this is just real life for us them –> I wear clothes!!

 

My 5 year old:

 

My 6 year old:

 

My 10 year old:

As we go through our curriculum throughout the week I write questions on the board daily.  Some of it is memory work, some of it is accountability, some of it is just so I know they have something to tell their daddy they learned that day.  I also use sticky notes to mark information for review questions later & am trying very hard this year to follow it up with index cards each week. 

Monday, July 11

Around the House . . .

 

There have been LOT’S of little projects in the works!

The boys room got an AMAZING aquarium .  .  .

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    Originally it was going to be set-up in the library area of school(barn), but we finally opted for it to go in the boys room!  To add to the excitement we put 2 of our tilapia's inside here (which are mouth brooders) that just had babies!  

 

 

 

 

 

I am making our hallway a family message center:

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*I’ll be posting more on this soon!

My office/scraproom is in the process of becoming an office/scraproom/closet . . .

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Tara has quite the wardrobe!

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So basically, almost every room in the house is slightly under construction. 

My household project goals are:

July – My office & finish the hallway

We are sooo limited on closet space & I am sooo limited on time to scrapbook, so I decided to combine my scrapbooking area with my office area so we can make the current scrap area into a closet.  Once I get it organized & cleaned out it shouldn’t be that big of a project – I’m not doing anything fancy – just functional :) *I am painting it turquoise though!!

August – My room & Tara’s room

Last summer I completely redid Taylor’s room & we gave her our furniture.  We’ve been meaning to purchase new furniture, but had a hard time finding something we agreed on & that would fit the style of our home.  We have finally agreed on this Crown Mark furniture & I’m hoping Big Daddy will get it for us for our anniversary (Aug 3). 

Now that Taylor is not living here I am making her former bedroom Tara’s Room/”The Girls” room.  Although I have drooled over several baby beddings I have decided NOT to set-up the crib.  (Yes, it is still up from Truman, but is coming down soon!)  Honestly, I just don’t use them.  Not enough to justify the room it takes up or the cost of a girly baby bedding.  Instead, I will be setting up a changing table (a sweet friend gave me for FREE) & blingin’ the room to full pink capacity!  At first, I refused to repaint it, but after doing a little decorating planning I will definitely be getting the paint brushes back out!  More to come on her room next month!  Expect to see lot’s of color, bits of several animal prints, with a vintage twist. 

September – The boys room

The boys room definitely needs some attention!  They broke one of the windows, the wall needs sheet-rocked where we closed it off to the kitchen, all the walls desperately need to be repainted, & the carpet is awful.  Their room is going to be quite the project.  I’m not sure we will be able to afford new flooring, but we are hoping to get most of it back in order.  We are slowly beginning to move Truman out of our bedroom & into the boys room – to make things more comfortable we need to turn our bunk-bed into a triple bunk.  The problem is that the current beds don’t sit high enough up to slide a trundle under them.  We’ll see what create way my handyman come up with . . . 

Could I be nesting {already} ?

Saturday, July 9

Our first week: Curriculum

*Click here to see what I picked & my initial thoughts BEFORE we used it.

Here is what I think after our first week:

Bible/Character (purity):  Against the Tide

If there is one curriculum this year that I know the Lord lead me to it is this one.  Without a doubt!  I am so thankful I am starting it young with my mustangs & relieved that I didn’t wait a minute longer to start it with Tyler.  It is perfect timing for the little ones, with a new baby on the way & all the questions that come from that.  But, Tyler is almost 11.  He is on the brink of puberty (I’m sure he will NOT appreciate his mama sharing this publicly).  We began this curriculum with him reading his own devotional & then him & I reading Boyhood & Beyond together.  After our first week I am proud to say that EACH day we have had wonderful, thought-provoking, bonding conversations.  I had no idea the things he “needed” to talk about that this book has opened the doors for.  Even without the curriculum guide, I would highly recommend Boyhood & Beyond to all parents with boys!  FABULOUS!!

Language Arts:

Spelling:  All About Spelling

They love it.  I love it.  After our first week I was able to identify the letters/sounds that needed review, go over vowels, segment words, & review the order of the alphabet.  Tyler is moving much faster (as expected), but even for him – a reluctant reader – it is great review & practice.  Tucker really struggles with learning.  His mind is beyond his years & his heart is not in books it is in nature.  I love this about him, but it makes being his teacher very difficult at times.  My heart breaks for him as I see his younger brother speeding past him in subjects.  But outside the classroom, he has an amazing sense of nature & common sense.  At 2 we could have blindfolded & dropped him off anywhere on our property & I guarantee you he would have found his way home.  He could careless about reading & writing when there are goats, pigs, & calves to play with.  All About Spelling is giving him the hands-on practice he so badly needs & I see his confidence building.  The daily review approach & cards are so helpful.  Tucker has really struggled with sounding out words.  First sounds aren’t near as difficult for him, but the last sound in words, & completely segmenting words was not something he could do.  But this week – he did!!  He did amazing.  Right now, we are not doing any other phonics program – just All About Spelling for about 15-20 minutes a day with each of them.  I am amazed at the progress they have made in just a week!

Writing: IEW

I was so hesitant & overwhelmed with IEW, but as Tyler approached 5th grade & had little writing skills I realized we needed something.  I read reviews of IEW & had friends recommend it, but the cost & options were intimidating.  After seeing a SMILE on his face after his first lesson I was hopeful.  Then having him write a short paragraph WELL on his own, check it & type it without any tears or complaining – I’m sold!  He loves it!  He thinks the teacher is funny.  He understands the lessons & processes.  He is excited & motivated to write.  And I am so excited he is!!  As far as the company – I have to add that I was sent the wrong guide & didn’t realize it until the day we started.  I was not a happy customer, but after calling, explaining my issues – within 10 minutes I had a PDF file in my inbox & by this afternoon the printed guide arrived.  The customer service & satisfaction of this company made me just as proud to support as the material itself. 

Science:  Apologia Human Anatomy  

Apologia science has started off to what I thought was kinda boring.  I wasn’t sure if my kids were understanding it or even listening.  UNTIL . . . I was going over Tyler’s notebooking pages with him & suddenly Tucker & Trevor both are answering the questions.  Next week the activities will be super fun & should grab their attention even more.  The notebooking has added a great hands-on review that we all are enjoying.  The short daily “Try This” experiments keep the kids interested & make the lessons fun.  I can’t wait to dive deeper into our anatomy study.

History:  Winter Promise All American 1 

It is no secret that I am a huge fan of Winter Promise.  I love the layout, book choices, hands-on-activities, & extra work for older kids.  This year when it all arrived I was totally overwhelmed!  There was A LOT!  Time Travelers was so confusing, but once I figured it out & decided how to organize it & then we used it – we are sooo enjoying it!  The reading isn’t overwhelming & the boys are truly learning.  I can’t wait to share the activities we did this week.

Spanish: La Clase Divertida

Spanish has been ALL my kids’ favorite every.day.this.week.  They love love love it!  In just a week they know the vowels & sounds, associated colors, how to ask & respond “what is your name”, & the Spanish alphabet A-G.  The DVD & CD are very interactive & the kids truly engage in it.  They are constantly asking throughout the day to listen to their Spanish CD so they can practice. 

So far, I am very excited & extremely pleased with all our choices.  I have no hesitation or doubts in any of the curriculum I selected this year.  YAY!  And my kids haven’t complained about any of it either – double bonus!!

Thursday, July 7

TIME

My original plan was to start school Monday.  But Big Daddy just wasn’t havin’ it – we can’t school on the 4th of July!!  Even though we are under a burn ban, he had to work, & we had NO plans.  I wasn’t quite ready anyway, so I postponed our start date a day.

Let me just say for all “real life” or “keepin’ it real” purposes – this week has left me exhausted. 

We have had great days together & are totally enjoying ALL of our curriculum, & we are getting A LOT done, but our days have been

VERY L-O-N-G!

The first two days we didn’t finish until nearly 5:30pm.  Today we finished around 4pm (which is actually 30 minutes earlier than our schedule).  Easing our way back into school would have been ideal, but considering all the bad habits that we had to break from Truman being sick, bedrest, & then a 2 month summer break – I know me & my kids – starting all or nothing, cold turkey, gettin’ ‘er done was the best way to let go of the old & start again.  Not to mention:  I’m havin’ a baby (GIRL!!!) in about 10 weeks

So the main “problem” (if you will) is the timing.  And honestly, I don’t know why I’m sweatin’ it.  We have had a great time together.  The kids aren’t complaining – they are excited about each activity & are ready for what’s next.  They haven’t dreaded one single subject!  I don’t know why I’m worried about time.  Isn’t that what this is all about – TIME with my kids? 

Although our days seem long, we take breaks & I’m still getting my daily chores done.  In fact, Tuesday was “Kitchen Day” & I made or prepped all the meals for the rest of the week (which made the past 2 days fabulous).  Wednesday was “Laundry Day” & I got 7 loads of laundry washed, folded, & separated out.  Not to mention 3 of those loads were hung dried & I stripped, washed, & remade the sheets on all our beds.  Today is “Desk Day.”  The day where the rest of the week is all down hill.  Typically today would be our last day of school for the week.  So all-in-all it hasn’t been that bad.  Just a lot of time. 

I think what is standing out in my mind is the nagging idea of what others think.  Last year we had friends from public school over almost every.day.  If we weren’t done with school by the time they were I felt like such a failure.  I constantly feel like I’m racing the clock to “beat” them.  I HOMESCHOOL for crying out loud.  Why do I feel the need to be done by 3?  Why suddenly is this an issue for me?  I take it so personal if someone calls or comes over & we are “still schooling” passed 3pm.

As far as our schedule – We went with Plan B.  The first part of the day goes incredibly well & we stick to the time pretty darn good.  The kids have been doing their chores while I make breakfast (quick & simple on the days Big Daddy works & good ol’ home cookin’ when he is off), the timing on this has been almost perfect! 

Spanish is their favorite, so it is the perfect motivation to get them going in the mornings.  They are so excited (I’ll be posting a “what we learned this week” post over the weekend, but they are totally rockin’ Spanish!!) to begin their Spanish lessons it is almost a race to get to the schoolbarn. 

Next is science.  Apologia only schedules it twice a week, but I’m thinking we will be doing it daily (4 days).  We are going to read one day, notebook & projects the next, & continue that pattern the next 2 days.  At least on the weeks there seems to be a heavy workload or we are running behind schedule. 

History follows science & may actually take a bit longer some days than I anticipated (that or I’m just trying to do too much – imagine that!)  We’ve really enjoyed our start into American History & have already made some cool projects. 

The last part of our morning is character.  This is the time I read the books from the Against the Tide curriculum.  Let me say, in just 3 days, some wonderful conversations & bonding with my boys (especially Tyler) have come from this time.  I start with the younger 2 while Tyler is finishing his independent history work.  Then him & I spend a little time together.  We are reading Boyhood & Beyond.  I absolutely LOVE it & think he is the perfect age & maturity for this book!  I am gaining as much from it as he is.  I’ll definitely be sharing more on it soon. 

For the most part the boys have gotten at least a 30 minute break before lunch.  Lunch has been on time most days.  Then things seem to slow down or speed up.  Our afternoon routine is definitely in need of a little tweaking.  I have quiet time scheduled for an hour.  In the perfect world this time would be so nice to unwind, read a book, & separate the boys for a bit.  BUT reality doesn’t seem to be proving this idea so logical.  After a morning full of school I’m thinking my boys need to RUN, PLAY, & even fight a little (maybe then it will cut down on the fighting during the next few school hours – hey a mama can hope!)  We could all really use a break from Truman at this point too (more on our days with him soon!! – let me just say WOW!!!!!  right now though.  WOW!!!!) but he is diligently trying to give up nap time.  I realize there is no set “must” or “have to”.  I will probably just play this time of the day by ear.  If quiet time seems fitting – we will have quiet time.  If outside time is necessary then GET OUT!  If we are running behind or need to finish early.  We may just get back to work. 

The one thing we did NOT do this week was our read aloud.  This was on purpose.  I’d like to start one soon, but we do a lot of reading & I’d like to work the kinks out of our routine before adding this in.  I’m not sure when we will start a read aloud time.  Maybe next week, maybe not for a couple of weeks. 

Our language arts time is the first thing we do after lunch.  It is began with spelling.  *We are all LOVING All About Spelling!!!*  The first 2 days they all started out on the same lesson & have each quickly set their own different paces.  I’m starting with Tucker first now.  He needs the most help.  While he is with me the other 2 begin handwriting then get a workbox or work on unfinished or independent work.  Then they switch.  It seems to be working so far & really isn’t that time consuming rotating the 3 through it. 

Tyler still needs help with his grammar here & there.  He is diagraming sentences & it can be kinda tough so the mustangs usually play together at a center or work on a workbox.  Right now I’m letting them choose, eventually I may direct them to specific centers or workboxes.  Tyler began IEW this week & LOVE LOVE LOVES it!!  He actually wrote his first paragraph without help from me, no tears, & was excited & proud of his work.  I’ll save the details for later since this post is forever long already.  Language & writing are not new for the mustangs & they do well. 

Thank goodness they are all good at math because it is last & by that time of the day I’m a lil’ bit grouchy & my patience is running short.

Our workload & curriculum seems to be moving wonderfully smooth, just longer than I was expecting.

Whew!  Any suggests or obvious tweaks are welcome!!  Especially since I’m begging for punishment & volunteered to teach pre-k/k VBS at our church next week.  LOL  Yes, we will school all day.  Then I will shove some food at my family & rush them off to church to corral & love on 20 something 3-6 year olds.  Did I mention it is over 100 degrees here & I’m 7 months pregnant? 

Tuesday, July 5

OUR SCHOOL {barn} 2011

Today, July 5 marks the first day of our 2011-12 school year.  It has been a crazy, very busy past few weeks of preparing curriculum, schoolroombarn recovery, & lesson planning.  Lot’s of late nights for this mama!  But it has all paid off because our schoolbarn is no longer in recovery mode!!  Wanna see what I’ve been up to?

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Our schoolbarn hasn’t changed a whole lot since last year, but there are a few changes.

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I did a little re-arranging & got another Expedite from IKEA (love that place!)  The 2 bins on the end are the Itso large bin’s from Target (*on sale last week for $7ea!!).  The 2 middle ones are from IKEA.  The left side is for arts & crafts (paint, stamps – things I don’t want Truman in!!!), the bottom left is supplies for future science, history, or Spanish projects & the red bag holds art supplies – drawing books & such.  The right side is our writing/grammar side.  It stores writing materials, HWOT manipulatives, & references.

*The blank poster above will be our grammar/writing cheat sheet.

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On top you will find…

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Paint Caddy (from Target w/ a little DIY touch), I have this blue caddy to hold markers & crayons (inside an old basket), & the red bucket (I think I got at Target) just holds glues, scissors, & rulers.  You’ll also notice the glass jars.  One holds the kids (color coded) dry-erase markers, the other pencils (all of my kids use a different type of pencil & none of them keep up with them very well).

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The little blue cubby that used to hold our arts & crafts is now part of our new “command center”.  On top is our Family Rules, If-Then Chart, & Brother offended me list (framed) & our timer.  Inside each cubby are my teacher guides.  The top holds guides I’ll need for morning activities together, next to it holds afternoon guides for group work.  The cubbies below each hold guides for Tyler, the other for Tucker & Trevor.  It was way too small to hold all our supplies & boxes/bins would not fit in it.  Which caused a MAJOR problem with my WILD Lil’ Buckaroo who is into EvErYtHiNg!!!  Most of the time is was turned backwards to keep him OUT – & was not exactly easy for any of us to get to!

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Another semi-addition to our “command center” is the info board.  Last year the kids did AWANA & the memory verses took up the entire board, but this year our church is doing a different Wednesday night program, so I decided to make the chalkboard our information board.

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The information/titles that won’t change are written in “chalk paint” (washable) – it is so stinkin’ cool!!  I love it.  The weekly info I wrote in regular chalk to make it easier to change each week.

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I slightly rearranged our workbox area to make room for the new Expedite.  On top stores the kids binders (totally color coordinated) & some personal supplies.  Each kid has their own timer, dry-erase board, eraser, etc.  I am not currently using the workbox system the Sue Patrick way.  I have read the book & implemented it as it was designed.  But the daily updating task got old.  The daily “work” is not a problem for us – it is the extra that is the issue.  So I put extra fun activities inside the boxes weekly.  You’ll find doodle pages, geoboards, magazines, drawing pages, etc. inside.  When the kids need a break or are waiting on me or a sibling to move on I rotate them between our centers & workboxes.  It works for us!

 

The other areas are pretty much the same.

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Our library area hasn’t changed much – other than the AC/Heater & a little rearranging.  *There was a HUGE issue over the AC.  Big Daddy wanted to put it in the middle of the room (right where my Grammar/Writing Center board is) & I was having major issues with that idea.  I really wanted it cut into the wall (right beneath where it is).  A window was NOT either of our first choices, especially because the view is so beautiful, but it was our compromise.  At least it isn’t permanent!  My next IKEA trip I will be adding an Expedite section under these windows & maybe a few more small Billy book cases in the corner to the right. 

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The bottom left pix is our pathetic history/geography area.  I know the bucket says “comics & magazines, but it really holds our geography books.  I just haven’t changed the label.  Big Daddy hasn’t finished the walls on this side of the room, but I’m planning on hanging our U.S. map over here (soon!)  The bags you see are our “book bags”.  Since most of our books are in the schoolbarn, I made these bags for the boys to transport free reading books to & from our house.  I pick a few & they add their choices as well.  I try to make sure there is a variety of reading – magazines, short stories, biographies, etc. 

 

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My desk area is still a slight disaster after all the planning that has been going on.  My absolute favorite is my desk apprentice.  It is just amazing.  Last year the files were for daily handouts & subject files.  This year we have quite a bit more hand-outs with our curriculum, so I made weekly files for the first half our school year.  The hanging files are just from Walmart & I used the already #ed stickies from Stapples – much easier than using the traditional file lables.  Plus the colors are pretty :)  The sides of my apprentice hold dry-erase markers, favorite pens & pencils, highlighters, & permanent markers.  I REALLY REALLY want a 31  file bag like Sam’s.  *In fact, if any of you are Thirty One consultants let me know – I’d love to order from you.

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Since our schoolbarn is not attached to our house, snacks & drinks can be a challenge.  Each of the boys have their own little “saddle bags” with snacks & I got the little mini water jugs from Walmart & used paint pens to right their names on them.  They are a huge hit with all the boys & super convenient. 

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And that is it.  My sweet homeschool haven.  I LOVE IT!