Showing posts with label Tucker. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tucker. Show all posts

Thursday, March 1

My Lil’ Farmboy

My sweet Tucker-boy has a new love…

 

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Last summer Tucker bought his first pig – a potbelly pig he calls “Q.T.”  He used his own money & she is his responsibility.  Then a few months later Big Daddy decided to add “Fred & Ethel” to our pigpen.  Low & behold Ethel was expecting.  Sadly, her babies died & my little pig farmer was devastated.  So when I tell you how excited he was to discover 3 little piglets in Q.T.’s house it is an understatement.  I have to admit, they are pretty stinkin’ cute! (pun totally intended)

Thursday, August 25

Tucker Boy’s Birthday

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This boy just melts my heart.  He has a different kind of spirit.  Different than any of my other children.  He is so much like his daddy, but has just enough of his mama to keep him sweet <3

His connection with animals & nature is amazing.  Sometimes I’m not sure if his attachment to this farm is a blessing or a curse.  He is so love sick with his farm that any time we leave he can’t completely enjoy himself, because he is too concerned with the happenings of the farm while he is gone. 

For Birthdays & Christmas he doesn’t ask for toys like most kids – he asks for pets, cages, knives, guns, & fishing trips!  He doesn’t spend his money on “things” he saves it for his animals or to get more animals.  He LIVES for the “1st Monday Trades Day” weekends (flea market).  Earlier this summer he saved $30 & bought himself his very own pig (“Miss Piggy”) & a cage to bring him home in.  I often find him up early in the morning (before anyone else) down playing with his pig. 

He seldom sits through an entire movie.  He will often become to inspired to sit & watch – he gathers ideas & then goes out & does it.  He is full of adventure & loves to explore. 

 

This nature lovin’ country boys of mine is 7 years old today!  Where did the time go? 

We are spending Tucker’s birthday at the lake (yes, only for him & maybe 3 others would I endure over 100* temps).  His daddy has rented a cabin & booked a guided fishing trip = because that is “all” he wanted.

Friday, August 5

Good Intentions

I had good intentions of blogging this week . . .

Then it came & went & is it really FRIDAY (already?)  We have been sooo busy around here . . .

  • Tucker will officially be adding 2 front teeth to his Christmas list this year

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  • Truman got a new do:

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Yep!  We cut the shaggy curls off.  Well, I say “we” – His daddy actually did it. Tucker came running in the house telling me they had a surprise for me.  I was expecting a new caught bug.  Boy was I surprised to see my baby looking like such a big boy.

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Which brother do you think he looks like now?

  • This is just a lil’ proof of what TROUBLE this little 1 year old is . . .

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  • Big Daddy built the boys new bunkbeds (*not totally done)

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  • Big Daddy & I celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary & bought new bedroom furniture

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Friday, May 20

Goals!

One of the things that I love about the “Against The Tide” curriculum guide I purchased from Generations of Virtue is the list of goals that my children should learn for the year.  I always set academic goals for my kids each year, but could feel the Lord tugging on me to set character goals as well.  Especially now that a little princess will be here soon, my boys have a little refining to do! 

Here are the goals for my mustangs (from the guide, I will be adding to these soon):

  • Table manners
  • How to be a good sport
  • How to be a good host or hostess
  • How to share their toys
  • How to behave at a social gathering
  • How to greet other people politely
  • They should always clarify with their parents the things they hear from their friends or each other
  • What constitutes a good work ethic
  • Why it is important to do a good job on the tasks you are given
  • A good attitude toward work & chores

Here are the goals for Tyler (all the above plus . . .):

  • Why God tells us to wait for relationships
  • The Bible speaks to us about God’s guidelines for everyday topics
  • How to find answers in the Bible
  • Good Character is more important that wealth, physical appearance, or popularity
  • He can come to his parents about puberty, sex, & relationships

 

Here are a few ideas I have for adding to the suggests from the Against the Tide program :

Table Manners

- Recently, my church held a “Glam Day” for the youth girls of our church.  *I will share more on this in detail soon, but one of the topics was etiquette.  An older (self claimed, “Blue Hair”) lady, whom I highly respect & admire, suggested having every Sunday evening dinner be a special etiquette meal.  She said she would prepare a lovely meal & her boys (3) would work on their table manners & she would instruct them on etiquette. 

How to be a good host

- I love the suggestion of creating A Hospitality Calendar in Large Family Logistics.  Each month I will have goal for opening our home & being a more active hospital family.  For example, one month we will invite a family from church over, another month we will invite an older couple over, another month we will invite a family we would like to get to know better, etc.  Large Family Logistics offers great suggestions to plan & prepare for guests. 

How to share their toys

- There are few smaller children we have over that my boys have a difficult time sharing with.  I plan to be more diligent about planning ahead & putting toys that are special or easily breakable away (this boy can tend to be rather rough); however, I will also remind my boys that the toys that are out are toys to be shared.  I have always had a deal with my kids that anything that is broken by another child I will be happy to replace for them. 

How to greet other people politely

- My children are rather polite, but there are a few bad habits (mostly out of nervousness) that need to be worked on.  Mainly, saying “what” & always looking the person you are talking to in the eye. 

Work ethics/happy hearts when doing chores/doing a good job

- Tyler has met all of these goals.  Recently, Tucker has become his helper & he is doing a great job of training him.  Tucker is young & has a long way to learn the ropes & develop a good work ethic, but I am going to make a huge effort to develop another chore chart/system.  This has been a need for quite awhile.

Purity, Dating, Sex, etc.

- Big Daddy & I have seen signs of Tyler beginning to go through puberty.  We’ve both had short little talks with him on what to expect & he is pretty comfortable with asking us questions.  We don’t do the whole boy-friend/girl-friend thing, but we have had to address it more this year because of other kids his age doing it.  Tyler is very obedient & our explanations seem to have been suffice for him him, but I am looking forward to opening the lines of communication more on this topic & continuing to direct him Biblically in this area.  Sex really isn’t an issue right now; however, I do believe that we, as his parents, should be the first ones to mention the topic rather than him hearing it elsewhere first & then coming to us.  I think this subject can be addressed at this point at an age appropriate level with his dad & I using our parental discretion.  

Thursday, January 13

LIFE captured

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  • Didn’t you know desks were not really made to be sat in?
  • Sticking your tongue out while working really does make you smarter.
  • I have no clue.
  • All the cool kids wear raccoon skin hats to school!!

Wednesday, January 12

Memory Work

 

I am also very proud to announce that

my mustangs have memorized their first poem!!!

The Caterpillar

 

Just to keep it real with ya . . .

 

One more try . . .

 

Oh how I love these boys!!!!!!!

 

*They memorized this poem in just the first few lesson’s of First Language Lessons.

Wednesday, October 6

My Mustangs . . .

    

I mean, My Mummies . . . 

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My mustangs mummies are having a lot of fun learning about ancient history!

Saturday, September 25

Time-Out

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In her book, Creative Corrections, Lisa Whelchel offers a few helpful suggestions for better use of “TIME OUT”.

She suggests using a time out far away – like the tree 5 pastures over :)  Or to use specific “Time Out” spots.  I have creatively created a sock matching time out spot (everyone here hates matching the missing socks up).  Sometimes disciplining doesn’t have to involve a punishment or harsh consequence.  Sometimes my boys fight & just need a “Time out” from each other.  I use this Time Out almost daily!  For about 30 minutes each day they end up being band from playing with one another.  Another idea for a Time Out is to have them work on something.  Have an activity ready to go just for a Time Out – maybe pound nails into a board, or work a puzzle. 

I’m currently working on creating lot’s of time out spots.  I love Erica’s (Confessions of a Homeschooler) idea of sending her kids to the laundry room when they have a bad attitude – what goes in is dirty & it doesn’t come out until it is clean.

Do you have any creative Time Outs?

Wednesday, August 25

6

  

Six is always hard for me . . .

 

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There are no 6T clothes.

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6 is so “official”.  6 is a big boy. 

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And my sweet gorgeous

 

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is officially a big boy. 

 

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Tucker is 6!!!

 

    Tucker,

You will never know how truly special you are to us.  You are the baby we thought we would never know.  You are the child that God used to let me know He still heard my prayers.  Tucker, you were our answered prayer.  Watching you grow into a “big boy” the past 6 years has been such a blessing.  You are so sweet.  I love your kiss & that “look” you give me when you want mommy time.  I love seeing you strive to be like your big brother.  It is wonderful watching you & Trevor play like best buddies.  And I love seeing you be a big brother with Truman.  You are so sweet with him – can you be that gentle with your other brothers?  Your smile brightens my day sweet boy.  I cannot imagine life without you & I am so thankful I get to be your mommy. 

Happy Birthday Tucker Boy!!  I Love You to the moon & back!!

Tuesday, August 24

Sunday, August 22

I’m Gonna Miss This . . .

A couple weeks ago, I caught the boys on a fishing adventure . . .

In our barn!

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& listen to their imagination run wild.

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out in the middle of a huge lake

catching the biggest fish they ever saw!” 

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& not trying to push the other overboard or drown one another!!

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Thursday, August 19

Meet My Outlaws

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Truman is “the baby”, my Lil’ Buckaroo.  He was the sweetest most perfect baby . . . Then he turned 1 & has entered tothood.  YIKES!  This boy is a TRUE MAN – he is rough & tuff & think he is so big, but when no one is looking, he is sneaking kisses & loving all over you.  He is into everything & loves to explore.  He is such a “brother” & makes his biggest brother feel so special because he is his favorite.  His daddy is slowly winning him over with 4-wheeler rides (his FAVORITE), but for the time being mommy is who he wants 99.9% of the time.  His is the brother that makes his 2 older brother (that are Irish twins & complete opposites) look like brothers.  Truman’s demanding high-pitched scream will drive you crazy, but his big blue eyes will melt your heart!!

The next 2 I often refer to as MUSTANGS, because they are totally WiLd!!!  They are WILD MUSTANGS …

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Trevor is by far a handful.  He is the most like his daddy & they often but heads.  But he is my sweetest boy.  He is super sensitive & hates for anyone to be upset with him.  He has NO FEAR & thinks he is invincible.  He is the silliest little guy & has the sweetest, most contagious laugh you’ve ever heard.  He extremely bright & has no problem keeping up with his slightly older brother.  This boy is sweet, but he also has a mean streak a country mile wide.  He is definitely my fighting Irishman!!  This mustang has no problem defending himself & is very loyal to his brothers.  He is his sister’s favorite & his brother’s best friend. 

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Tucker.  Tucker is my nature boy.  He loves the country life & is always on a hunt for a new critter to capture.  He is absolutely gorgeous & will definitely be a heart-breaker (especially considering he hates dislikes girls very much!!  Thank goodness I’m a mama & not a girl :)  Tucker is a fairly easy child, until his mischievous side shows.  He is sneaky & won’t hesitate to let his little brother take the blame.  He adores his big brother & is very protective of his baby brother, but not so much either with his little brother.  I hate to admit it, but he is a daddy’s boy.  His daddy lights his face-up & can fix anything!  Tucker has very little purpose for school – he would rather be chasing cows & goats!  The only reason he willingly participates is because he refuses to let his little brother out do him.  Thank goodness he is competitive!

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Tyler is my first born.  He was God’s little trick on me.  If only they were all this easy!  Tyler is a very diligent worker – his daddy’s top hand!  He takes his responsibilities on the farm very seriously.  He is the all American kid.  He likes to hunt & fish & is a great little ball player.  He is a wonderful big brother (& little brother).  He takes very good care of his brothers & is even pretty protective of his big sister.  This boy is my class clown.  He loves to make people laugh & is constantly playing tricks on his momma.  He has a heart of gold & would give a stranger the shirt off his back.  He is the most like me & although my days are numbered – he is a momma’s boy!!

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Taylor is her daddy’s girl.  She loves her daddy!  She is our most trying child, but has no doubt made us both better parents.  She has given us a run for our money, but her love for the Lord has helped overcome many of our challenges.  She is a fabulous big sister & takes great care of all her brothers.  They would say she is bossy, but it is always well-meant.  She is a pretty well-rounded girl.  She has no problem playing with the boys, but absolutely LOVES getting all dressed up for a day of shopping :)  She tends to be a little self-conscious, but if you get to know her, you’ll catch her letting her hair down & dancing like no is watching.

 

I LOVE THESE OUTLAWS!!

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Friday, July 16

Classical Conversations

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I first heard about this group last year when two of my good friends joined.  I was very excited for them to join the group, but that was I path I swore I would NEVER join them on.  It wasn’t really my style (I love picking my own curriculum way too much & I have my own “cycle” of history & science! ).  Classical Conversations was not in MY plans! 

As I continue to pray over our homeschooling next year, & especially our plans for Daddy’s girl, CC continues be an option that keeps crossing MY path!

A few weeks ago I read this post by Heidi at Mt. Hope Chronicles.  Ever since it has been heavy on my heart – seeming to be the perfect solution for Taylor.  I shared some of the same hesitations Heidi describes, as well as, my own:

  • I like to make my own sequence of learning & love our Winter Promise curriculum.
  • It is expensive.
  • The intense focus on memory work without context - memorization aspect is impressive at first, but it isn't followed up with any kind of understanding.
  • The simple fact that any program is only as good as the people (directors, tutors, parents, and children) involved.  You are paying for their time, but not their expertise.

However, after reading Heidi’s post & speaking with my friends that I know who have already participated in CC, I am now beginning to think CC might be in God’s plan for our homeschool.  NEVER say NEVER!

The benefits . . .

I like the idea of CC for Taylor especially, because it is geared highly toward memorization.  Although Taylor does not have a learning disability, she struggles with wanting to learn & the learning process.  Most of the time she is not academically motivated; however, she is VERY good at memorizing.  For this reason I think CC would be a great academic motivator for her.  One of my friends told me that her girls wanted to memorize the information because at CC they play games as a group & they wanted to win.  I’ll take all the motivation I can get!!  I also think the boys could benefit from a little memorization themselves!  Which, to be perfectly honest, would also hinder a few of my own insecurities.  Sometimes I wonder if I have grown a little too flexible & relaxed in my homeschooling our children.  The accountability of CC may be perfect for keeping us all on track.

The cost of CC is expensive; however, not in the long term standpoint.  Plus, I will have the opportunity to train as a tutor & teach – which will offer us a break in the expense.

I am a little overwhelmed with the decision making.  Things to consider -

Do I enroll all the kids?  Just the big kids?  or just Taylor?

-I’m leaning towards ALL the kids.

Do we do the Foundations program?  Foundations & Essentials?  or just Essentials?  Should I also enroll Tyler in the Essentials class or just Taylor?

-I’m leaning towards enrolling them ALL in the Foundations program.   Like Heidi, I am very excited about using the memory work as a spring-board for supplemental studies during the week. All of the memory work is on a CD, so that will make it very easy to review every day. We'll be doing CC work at the beginning of our daily routine as “memory work” and using Winter Promise Sea & Sky as our main curriculum.

The Essentials are NOT my strength in teaching, so I truly believe this will prove to be a great opportunity for both my big kids.

Do I put Truman in the nursery (& pay) or do I let my mother-in-law watch him?

-Although I hate to leave him, I will most likely be teaching & with my other kids most of the day.  I would much rather leave him with my mother-in-law, who I know will love all over him, than in a nursery.  I just pray he does well with the separation.  Plus, there is the reality that he is sick a lot (something I have not yet posted on) & I fear this will cause me to have to miss – which will conflict with me tutoring.

Our kids are very close.  I would say we are a tight-knit family.  However, the idea of all my kids being in a separate class may be a good thing.  They will all still be learning the same thing, but in different classes.  Tucker is my main concern in this decision.  He is so borderline first grade.  Although CC is age specific & not grade, I worry about him being in a 6 & 7 year old class. 

. . . I have a few concerns to work out in my own head, but if this is God’s will then I trust it will all work itself out.  Outside of the financial cost of CC, my concerns are mainly for the boys . . .  I truly believe in natural learning, letting kids be kids, & I am not big on fact drilling or test taking.  (Please note that I am still researching CC, I am not saying by any means that this is the way it works. I just worry that they will be miserable, as the style of CC may be something very different from what they are accustom to.)  On the other hand, I totally agree with the trivium model of classical education.  My kids are at an age that they are sponges, soaking in every little bit of information they get.  I relate so much to Heidi’s post, to summerize my thoughts,

“It occurred to me that Classical Conversations provides exactly the elements that are weaknesses for me and opportunities that my boys kids need: 1.) Consistency and discipline in memory work across all subjects. 2.) Accountability. 3.) A social network of families interested in the same educational goals. 4.) Experience in a classroom situation. 5.) Opportunity to make new friends. 6.) Learning from other adults and mentors. 7.) Hands-on science and fine arts projects. 8.) Practice in public speaking.”

I am continuing to pray over our decision to join CC & I am confident that God will direct our paths straight.  I see His hand in the decision making & feel totally confident in where we are & where we are going.

Monday, July 12

Vacation Part 1

Our kids did sooooo good in the car.  Truman had some issues, but considering we drove from Texas to Florida – they did GREAT!  Big Daddy & I like to get off the main interstate & take the scenic route – going through all the small towns & allowing our kids to see the culture around them.  We saw some beautiful scenery, the after math of hurricane Katrina still remains today, & then the devastation of the oil spill.  My heart breaks for these communities that truly live off the land.  So many people, especially the small business have truly been affected by the oil spill.  It is so sad.  In addition to seeing other cultures, we were also able to taste it!  We found some GREAT FOOD along the way!  Our first stop . . .

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Monday, June 28

Do my boys fight?

Ummm … YES!!

24 hours a day.

Yes, I said that right – 24!!!

I’m pretty sure (based on the way they wake up)

they even fight in their sleep!

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Oh, don’t feel sorry for the little guy! Trust me, this little guy is my fighting Irishman. He is my WILD child & will take his brothers down in a heartbeat. Don’t believe me (I know, he looks so little & innocent) . . .

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Do you see it? Do you see the look of pure enjoyment? Just look at the satisfaction he gets out of trying to DROWNED his brother!!!

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And incase you didn’t know, COUNTRY BOYS swim in water troughs for fun!

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They do fight, A LOT, but they really do LOVE each other A LOT too!